The other day, a client shared with me that she had been staring out her window, filled with angst, and wondering: “Is this it…is this how success feels?”
I thought it was a brilliant question.
We are often taught to measure success by external parameters—money, recognition, titles, or accomplishments. But the real question is: what does success feel like for you?
The Programming of Success vs. the Truth of Success
So often, we live inside stories that don’t belong to us. We chase what we think success “should” look like because we’ve been conditioned to believe it. We scroll, compare, and then feel frustrated when we don’t match those images.
And when something doesn’t work out as planned? The story of “failure” rises quickly.
I hear it often: “I tried that, and it didn’t work.”
If I had believed that story in my own life, I never would have gone on a second date with Warner. I had certainly “tried” relationships before, and they were painful. But by being willing to see beyond the past, I found a new path forward.
The Divine is always moving in the direction of our thoughts. When we affirm failure, the Universe—out of deep love—gives us exactly that. When we affirm success, we are given evidence of success. The Divine doesn’t judge; it simply amplifies what we choose.
The Parameters We Place Around Ourselves
Beneath our definitions of success often lives a deeper driver: fear of not being safe. To protect ourselves, we create parameters—what we will or won’t allow ourselves to say, be, or do.
But true success requires courage. It takes strength, determination, and the willingness to remember that—beneath the noise of fear—you are already whole, complete, and successful.
Time and place don’t matter here. Success lives at the Soul level. And when you align with that inner truth, every path you walk eventually leads you to the success that is already yours.
Tapping Into Your Greatness
How do you begin living from this deeper success? It begins by connecting within.
Try this thought experiment:
- Imagine what you desire most to experience.
- Notice what it looks, feels, sounds, smells, and tastes like.
- Write down the activities, feelings, and thoughts that live inside that experience.
You’ll notice: when you are truly connected to your greatness, fear and suffering can’t live there. They are not on the same frequency.
From this space, create a daily practice that keeps you tuned into greatness.
- Sing a favorite song that makes you feel powerful.
- Journal three “I AM” statements each morning that declare your success.
- Consciously connect with your Soul and ask to feel your greatness each day.
These simple acts build new patterns, new neural grooves, and new frequencies.
You Have Already Arrived
We often think success will finally arrive once the external conditions are met. But the truth is: you have already arrived.
Success is not a destination—it is a state of being. It is who you are when you stop letting fear run the show. It is the remembrance that you are already enough, whole, and complete.
Everything else—the spotlight, the money, the recognition—is simply a demonstration of that truth.
Ways to Step Into Your Success Now
If this resonates with you, then it’s time to move beyond stories of failure and step fully into your greatness.
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Because the truth is: you don’t have to wait for success to “arrive.” You are already living it.
Jennifer,
What a great way to reframe our definition of success and ensure it connects to us. Writing the I AM statements is a decisive step in making sure we internalize the new definition of success.
Thank you!
Very true. Reading this reminds me of Joe Dispenza book on Unbecoming Yourself. It has to be with picturing your desired outcome rather than focusing on past failures. You have to live as if you are already successfully. Very good advice.
Thank you! Yes, I agree and that is all about being in the present moment.
What a wonderful post! I especially liked this sentence: “The Divine is always moving in the direction of our thoughts.” Thank you! Diana
Thank you!